Prepare the Marinade: Combine all jerk marinade ingredients in a blender and process until smooth.
Marinate the Chicken: Remove the skin from the chicken thighs. Toss the chicken with the prepared marinade, ensuring it's well coated. Cover and refrigerate for at least 6 hours, or preferably overnight, to allow the flavors to meld.
Make the Coleslaw Dressing: In a bowl, whisk together the coconut milk, mayonnaise, red wine vinegar, salt, sugar, celery seed, and black pepper until smooth. Taste and adjust seasoning as needed.
Assemble the Coleslaw: In a large bowl, combine the grated yellow cabbage, grated carrot, and sliced green onion. Pour the dressing over the vegetables and toss to combine thoroughly. Chill until ready to serve.
Cook the Chicken: Heat 2 tablespoons of cooking oil in a cast iron skillet over medium-high heat. Add the marinated chicken thighs and cook for approximately 6 minutes per side, or until fully cooked through and golden brown. If necessary, cook the chicken in batches to avoid overcrowding the pan.
Warm the Tortillas: Once the chicken is done, if the skillet is clean (without burned bits), use the same pan to warm the tortillas. Otherwise, use a clean skillet.
Serve: Roughly chop the cooked chicken. Fill the warmed tortillas with the chopped chicken, top with a generous spoonful of coconut coleslaw, and finish with a squeeze of fresh lime juice.